Thursday, January 27, 2011

A Long Walk in the Park

On Monday, we took a much needed trek outside. We needed to go up to the north side of town, and so decided to visit Hart Park. We used to enjoy walking there sometimes, but it was a good half an hour from our old place and is now another 20+ minutes away. So it's a bit far unless we're going to be up in that area anyway!

Here are Erik and Thomas getting ready to try out the slide near the bathrooms before our walk:
Thomas was not sure about the slide . . .
For some reason there was an old cast iron bathtub, in concrete, sitting on the trail. Thomas was in the tub at one point too, but having learned my lesson from the Christmas picture session I settled for two out of three . . .
The river is running high and fast.
What is that hanging from the lone branch over the river, you ask?
Someone's bobber! Tee hee.
Erik waiting under some mistletoe (high, high above him)
Doesn't this look fun? The giant spreading tree with the rope swing hanging over the water . . . except that it's been drilled into my head that the Kern River is too dangerous to swim in. Ever. -sigh-
My boys
Me and Pip (pockets bulging with extra lens and spare camera battery, lol)
The birds were out in full force, singing their hearts out. So fun to hear!The horsetails here are much taller and thinner than I've seen in Wisconsin--these were almost shoulder high!
No visit to Hart Park is complete without a glimpse of the peacocks.
The kingfisher we saw as we were leaving was a real treat!
We've been trying to be better about taking the dogs for a walk (almost) every day--mostly just around the neighborhood. They have head collars for walking because they're both so naughty about pulling. The collars work pretty well, but Pippin will suddenly stop walking and frantically try to scrape it off of his nose (sometimes succeeding); now Thomas, as with all things, has started imitating his brother. Joy. So they've been pretty annoying to walk lately.

Today we finally did what we'd been talking about and took a squirt bottle along on our walk. WOW. I expected that it would help stop the behavior as it was happening . . . I did not expect the mere sight of the squirt bottle to turn Thomas into a Model Dog. It was crazy! He walked right next to Erik the WHOLE TIME, whether in a heal or not, and kept stopping to see where the squirt bottle was. Pippin of course, being the Very Large Personality in a Small Body that he is, didn't care a bit unless he was getting squirted. But it actually worked quite well with him in both a mad dash after a cat and the trying-to-get-the-collar off. Apparently all the tugging and the saying "NO!" is nothing compared to a little mist . . . go figure. But if this helps train them so we can leave the head collars at home and not fight with them as we walk--wonderful!!

Our other two boys (moments before waking and tussling with each other)
The oranges we've been enjoying from our tree!
This post is kind of all over the place, but I have a couple of random stories for you. The first happened this past week. It has been foggy. Really, really foggy. As in can't-see-across-the-street foggy. I think I've mentioned the Tule Fog that happens here in the fall or winter when it's damp? Kids here don't have snow days (obviously), but they've all grown up with Fog Delays. Well last Saturday morning it was still really foggy when I left the house at around 9:30am to pick up a friend's daughter and go to a knitting/crochet circle with some ladies from church. I hate driving when it's THAT foggy, but was hoping that it would be better once I got on the freeway. Of course as I was driving down the main (big, busy) road in our area, I missed my turn in the fog. No problem. I turned into the drug store right past the turn off and came out of the parking lot to get back on the road. Because both of these are busy streets, I couldn't turn left toward my friend's, but had to go right (back to the stoplight) and then make a U-turn at the light. U-turns at lights are very common (and legal!) out here, probably because so many of the roads are divided. Are you wondering about my point yet? It's coming!

As I pulled up to the light, the turn arrow was yellow and turned red. So I stopped. Apparently that was a mistake because I proceeded to sit and watch traffic from the other three directions--and those going straight from my direction--all stop, go, turn, etc. at their appointed times . . . for THREE FULL CYCLES. I am not exaggerating. The woman in the car next to me (also a turn lane) kept looking at me as I shrugged that I didn't know what to do either. Finally, as the fourth cycle began, I decided to call the police. I mean, shouldn't they know about a light that wasn't working, especially in the crazy fog? Heh.

As I started to explain, the dispatcher interrupted with, "I know," in a tone that clearly also said she didn't care. She said that there were several lights around town that "the fog messes with." I said I thought the lights were on timers. "They are . . . but the fog messes with them." Huh. Interesting. In an area where fog is a dangerous factor in driving every year, we have stop lights that don't function in fog. She then told me that I should do what I was "taught in driver's ed and take turns." Except . . . that no one else was taking turns. No one knew I NEEDED a turn. They were going when their light was green and stopping when it was red . . . and in the fog wouldn't see a car running a red light until they were Too Close. Umm . . . thank you, Ms. Hope-for-the-Best. So turn on a red light I did, because the alternative was apparently to camp until the fog lifted. Ugh.

My other story goes back a little further. I've been having trouble with extremely dry skin on my fingertips for months. I went to a P.A. in the summer and he diagnosed me immediately. "It's eczema. Classic. Textbook case." He gave me a prescription for some steroid cream and sent me on my way. The cream helped somewhat; it stopped the cracking and bleeding, but my fingers never got back to normal. I was also wearing gloves to bed with bag balm on my hands to keep them moist. Suddenly my hands were really red and dry in the palms and on the backs of my fingers (is this too much information?) When I went back to the doctor, he looked alarmed and changed the steroid cream to one with an anti-fungal, thinking perhaps it was caused by the gloves (which I then threw away). He did a blood test to check for an autoimmune disease and said if they weren't better by such and such to come back. The redness went away almost immediately with the new cream, so it probably was some fungus from the gloves. But the dry fingers persisted. When I came back, he had me see the doctor.

The doctor diagnosed me immediately. "It's Palmar Erythema." He read the P.A.'s notes and scoffed, "This is NOT eczema. Ridiculous. And he should have run a lot more tests." The doctor, for his 5 minutes with me, charged twice as much for the visit and ordered LOTS of tests. He also gave me a steroid shot and said he would refer me to a dermatologist, "But seriously, by the time you go there's going to be nothing to see and they're going to be like 'there's nothing wrong with you' and you'll have to explain. The shot, unlike that cream he gave you, will last for months." I went home fairly certain I had horrible health issues. Interestingly, when I looked up palmar erythema I found lots about liver diseases and other horrendous health-related problems, but absolutely nothing about dry skin. Thankfully all of the bazillion tests came back negative. On to the dermatologist.

The dermatologist diagnosed me immediately. "It's psoriasis. Hand and foot psoriasis." I was as diplomatic as possible when I said, "You're the third person who has taken one look at my hands and told me you knew exactly what it was . . . and all of you say something different." His response? "But I'm right." Oh. Ok, then. He went on, "I've never even heard of palmar erythema." So he sent me home with--wait for it--a prescription for a tub of the same steroid cream the very first guy gave me. (He also offered a light-therapy treatment that might help--at the bargain price of $1000/month. Pass. I'm going with the "being out in the sun helps too" part.)

Yep. It's been quite a ride.
Thanks for "listening" to me rant! :-)

Oh!! Best news ever--we're heading up to the Sacramento area (Antelope) on Saturday for a weekend with Mom, who is Andy's birthday present to Noelle! :-D

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

To My Adoring Public . . .

Thanks for keeping at me--I was doing so good and then BAM! two weeks had passed. Your sweet nagging reminds me that someone does read this blog. :-)

First, a kitty vignette for you:

Nuri: "Ahhh . . . just the pillow I've been looking for . . ." (Sigh of Delight)
Sam: "What the . . . ?!"
Sam: "I think I should care about this . . . "
Nuri: "Whaaat?"
(Nuri uses the Jedi mind trick)
Sam: "Nope. I'm too tired to care."
Nuri: "Huh. It worked."
"Really? Still with the pictures?"Sorry. Pet pictures are a definite weakness of mine.

It's been a little crazy around here. So crazy, in fact, that I didn't end up going to Hume Lake with the youth this time around. It was one of those bittersweet choices--better for my sanity, yet I know I missed a neat time. On an exciting note though, there were more adult chaperones than ever before, even without me going. It's awesome to have that involvement growing!

We are finally de-frocked from the holidays. Putting away decorations is SO not as much fun as putting them up, but we waited so long that I didn't have that sad empty-house feeling.

We squeezed in a quick visit to Ben & Pei since my last post. I thought these few pics Erik snapped before I let him go to sleep were an interesting display of the transition from central California to southern Cali.

To go down to L.A. county, we take the Grapevine through Tejon Pass. This route involves going up to about 4000 feet and back down; when there is any amount of snow, they simply close it down until the road has completely cleared (if you harken back, this was the cause of an unplanned, extended visit a couple of years ago). We actually delayed our trip to see Ben & Pei twice before heading down--once because of snow closure and once because of my jury duty (yep, you heard me--I find it interesting that all three of us California siblings have been called for jury duty since moving to Cali, yet none of us were ever called in WI). This corridor being the only practical route for semi and car traffic down south is also one of many reasons for the disgusting air in the valley (and the fines we pay for it).

Here we come from Bakersfield, where we'd been having chilly gloom and fog. Do you see that little bright spot in the V of the hills?
Here we are at that bright spot!You can see that there was still some residual snow in the hills, but the roads were bone dry. That shining blue sky was what we saw for the rest of our travels.
Crazy! And on the way home later that day? Same thing. From blue to gray in one little blip. The same thing happened the last time we took a group to Magic Mountain. It was actually raining in Bakersfield, but as we came over the pass--perfectly blue sky with sunshine.

We also got to see little Rose who, to be blatantly honest, was less than thrilled to see us. Apparently she digs her new digs.
The boys geeking out at the computer.Pei in the kitchen preparing our amazing lunch!I seriously need to have a "Cooking with Pei" weekend. Here is the table set with mouth-watering won ton soup (homemade won tons, people!) and the makings for some delicious Vietnamese spring rolls--to die for! We are SO making these again. If you're having trouble deciphering all the delectables, let me list them for you: rice noodles, shrimp, pork, cilantro, Thai basil, mint, cucumber, pickled carrot and daikon, lettuce and hot garlic sauce). Go get some today! Seriously. Everyone needs these spring rolls in their life.Here you can see the spring rolls in various stages of being rolled. Pei and I had dampened our rice paper spring roll wrappers and started loading them with goodies. Erik is displaying his beautifully wrapped roll, ready to eat. And Ben is covering a mouthful of deliciousness!Pei modeling her Christmas Sock Monkey cover for her snow boarding helmet--Ben & Pei were skiing and boarding at Mammoth this week for Ben's (early) birthday celebration!Their lovely living room (taken for Mom who complains that she STILL hasn't seen their new apartment)Here they are modeling their new patio furniture. Hard to see in the daylight, they have strung some large clear Christmas bulbs for evening lighting--pretty!

This last week I was busy running around finding props for a production of Pinocchio. It was a last minute thing this time around, but Don found most of what we needed with a little help from me. Our friend Bill and I spent a day visiting all sorts of secondhand stores and other shops in search of toys for Gepetto's workshop. This was one of my favorite finds:
Erik was a sport and took on the task of creating something to display as a "work in progress" on the stage.I don't think he enjoyed it at all.I totally love this toy and would keep it (just not get reimbursed) but for the limiting fact of too few nuts, which are what hold everything together. You can see in the tray all the pieces leftover that can't be used without nuts.I should be at rehearsal right now. Unfortunately after spending the morning sniffling and sneezing, thinking I was having allergies, I am now Officially Sick. Bummer. :-(

Erik has been taking good care of me and I hope/plan to kick this with a good long sleep tonight! Of course, I also planned not to GET sick. Meh.

So I'm off to bed. But I need to put in a note about one more recent event. It was a very special baby shower. All baby showers are special! And we're in a season of them at church right now (two little darlings born in the last month, one coming in a week and another in April--heaven help our nursery workers!) But this celebration was a little different. Our youth pastor and his wife are having a baby Very Soon. On the 27th of this month, in fact. And what made this shower so special was the fact that it "shouldn't" have happened.

Back in June we got a request to pray for Ryan & Chrissy because they had lost their baby. It was early on in the pregnancy and they hadn't told anyone yet. To make a long story short(er), they went to the hospital on a Sunday in a state of emergency. The doctor told them that the baby had been lost and thought it had probably been an ectopic pregnancy. They performed a D&C for the sake of Chrissy's health and when no tissue was flushed out said that meant the baby had already passed through. Ryan & Chrissy were, of course, devastated.

Two days later, still sick, she went back to the doctor. This doctor, after some questions and tests, came back into the room and said, "I don't know how to tell you this, but . . . you're still pregnant. There is a baby and it's alive." Thus began a rollercoaster--specialists, worries about the effects of the D&C and the medications afterward, several more rushed trips to the hospital with cramps and bleeding, and generally a complicated and emotional pregnancy with lots of nausea to boot. And lots and lots of prayer. And suddenly (it seems sudden anyway!) she is scheduled to be born in a week and a day! God is good. :-)

The little sweater I made for Aubrie Grace

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Happy New Year!

I've talked a little about our friends who have just become foster parents; it continues to be a learning experience as they move through the process. Thursday saw us driving north again for follow-up appointments, etc. It wasn't a bad day, but it certainly was long! We left Bakersfield at 7:30am and I got home around 9:00pm!! Whew.

On Friday our friends Theresa & Anthony arrived--Woo hoo!! It was fun to have a visit for the sake of a visit (although we love those "just passing through" visits too!) Here we are getting ready to enjoy that turkey soup I got around to making. ;-)
Friday night the DeCarlos came over to play some games and ring in the new year on East Coast time. We did end up playing one game at the very end of the evening, but mostly hung around talking and snacking. :-)
Meredith loves those koosh balls.
Lexie toasts the New Year (do any Ryders recognize that glass?) :-)
Sam and Kenadie sharing the chair.
Lexie setting up the board for Last WordAnthony with puppet; Dominic with Meredith (and Erik with the big grin)--this is a terrible picture but there's something so sweet about all these men enjoying little Meredith!
On Saturday Sergio joined us for a night of gaming into the wee small hours. Fun!
Anthony & Theresa left on Sunday morning and we headed off to church. It was a blustery, blustery day and we came home to . . . a Very Wobbly Fence. Here is my Handy Man doing his best to shore up the fence from our side (we couldn't get our back neighbors on the phone--it's disconnected--so we're hoping they respond to the note we left on their door!)
The temporary fix was facilitated by some zip ties I've had in the car for ages (Thanks, Uncle John!!!!)
Shortly after these pictures were taken it started to sprinkle and the wind died down. Hopefully this will hold for a while until we can get in touch with our neighbors!
Once the Quick Fix was done, we headed over to the Leaman's for some lunch and some football--the last games of the regular season. We have had an on-going bet of sorts this season: Brent & Erik for who buys coffee at discipleship every week, Erik & I for who takes the other to the Thai House at the end of the season, and Julie & I versus Brent & Erik for who will cook the other dinner at the end of the season. Unfortunately Julie & I lost this season (by 1.5%!!) so we will be making dinner for the guys sometime soon. Perhaps we can redeem ourselves in the playoffs . . . ;-)

May 2011 be filled with sweet moments and deep joys, and may you have the eyes to see them!

Love from,
christel